My experience in the SJSK-Nepal
When Sujan asked me to write something about my experiences in their Children Home, I had to think a long time how to describe this amazing time in the right words.
Actually I was a bit afraid of staying as the only volunteer in Kathmandu. All the volunteers from all over the world who I met during my orientation week left to Chitwan. For a short time I thought about doing the same but then I decided to live my dream of Kathmandu. And for sure, I do not regret!!
The Children Home is situated in Pasikot, close to Budhanilkantha (which is one of the most important Vishnu temples of the country) and a 40-minutes-bus-ride away from Thamel.
It is a quiet place close to the mountain and a perfect place to raise children.
When I came, I thought things like “for sure the kids are not interested in me. They always have a change of volunteers so they must be annoyed of getting to know new people!”
But this was completely wrong!! I arrived and found myself surrounded by many children. For example, the five-year-old Sudixa took my hand and showed me my room and all ten children were talking to me at the same time. It was a wonderful welcome and I felt home from the very beginning.
Here live Mommy, Daddy, their own children Sujan and Usha and ten children who they raise like their own ones. It is an amazing familiar atmosphere and I felt like living as their daughter in a big family. And of course, I lived many wonderful moments with them.
We celebrated Tihar, made walks to the near temple and cooked many many times. During this time, my 16-years-old sister Usha became my real sister and we spend a lot of time together chatting or, as I mentioned, cooking.
I spend a lot of time alone in the orphanage, without other volunteers, but this really does not matter!! I guess this is the reason why I got so close to them. And living in Kathmandu means meeting people everywhere and making friends without expecting. Do not worry about this! It is a wonderful experience
The children themselves are amazing!! I love them all without any exceptions. They made me laugh many times and even cry but out of joy. Many hours we spend making bracelets, drawing or just dancing. Their way to be happy about things was amazing!! I guess one of the most wonderful evenings was Christmas eve when we danced around the Christmas tree and Santa Clause brought all of them a present. It was the very first time they celebrated Christmas and they were unbelievable excited!
I spend around three months with my Nepalese family and now, my time here is over and I need to go back to Germany. I am quite sad about it. I will miss the family and the children and I got used to the Nepali lifestyle. I can not imagine to enter a shop in Germany without bargaining and eating my food without my right hands. The colorful life in Nepal and the hospitality of people made me feel like being a part of this life. Actually, after a few weeks I started to look at tourists like Nepali would do. As a volunteer you are somehow no tourist!
I can really recommend staying in this orphanage for some time! It is amazing and heartful!
In my case, I know I will come back one day
Yours Karolin